5 Things not to be When You’re a Sugar Baby

By Julia Jones

Jan 11, 2019

We write a lot of posts around Let’s Talk sugar about how to make the most of the sugar bowl and how to live a sugaring life—because let’s face it, it can be hard. When it comes down to it, we tell you a lot about what you should do but today I wanted to look at it from a sugar daddy perspective and talk about five things that you should avoid doing (or being like) when you’re a sugar baby because when it comes down to it, as sugar babies we need to make sure that our daddy is feeling good about the way the relationship is and the future of the arrangement.


When sugaring it’s easy to get distracted by the idea of getting more and more money. After all, that’s kinda the main point of sugaring for a lot of sugar babies but it’s important to make sure that you don’t get too caught up in the idea of money otherwise you leave your POT feeling like he’s only being used for his cash.


A lot of the time, sugar daddies look for someone who can contribute to their lifestyle and can accept the fact that they are busy- and a sugar daddy is looking for someone who can, quite frankly, handle their lifestyle when most girls can’t. And in return for accepting how hard they work, a sugar daddy is normally more willing to help his sugar baby out with anything she might need. But it’s important for the sugar baby to realize that she can’t demand to change her sugar daddies lifestyle.

Unhelpful & Unreliable

When a sugar daddy is looking for a sugar baby he’s looking for someone he can count on, someone who will help him with his lifestyle and someone who he can count on. Someone who adds value- just like you’re looking for when it comes to a sugar daddy, right?

Be the kind of sugar baby that is helpful, reliable, accepting, and accommodating and you’ll be the kind of sugar baby that no daddy will want to replace.


This isn’t even anything about being a sugar baby. This is about being a reasonable human being and not the type of girl that uses someone. No woman wants a man who is unkind and doesn’t care about them, and the same can be said for a potential sugar daddy. He won’t want someone who is unkind to him


This goes back to what I said above; no sugar daddy or POT is going to want a girl who is demanding, controlling, and trying to change his life- he’s worked hard to get where he is in life and he’s not looking for someone who is going to come in and try to change that. He’s looking for someone to spend his free time with and maybe spoil every now and then. Don’t think that you can get into a sugaring relationship and try to control his life, his hobbies, or the way his schedule is.

When it comes down to it, there are a few very simple things about sugaring. The number one thing is to be a human being. When we get all caught up in the worrying about sugaring and how to do it; we all get so caught up in the pressures that might or might not happen. We get caught up in wanting to make things fit and make things work out the way we want to, and often times we forget these simple things that we need and that our sugar daddies need.