Am I His Mistress?

By Jasmin

Aug 09, 2017

Am I his mistress? As I’ve said many times before in a few recent posts, dating a sugar daddy is no different to dating an ordinary man…well it shouldn’t be anyway. However, what I’ve found is that the accelerating rate in which married sugar daddies worldwide are beginning to come out of their shell. Although you can’t be 100% sure in such cases, there are many signs that can help you determine if your sugar daddy is married and that may keep you from wondering “Am I his mistress?”.

It’s All in the Details

1) If your sugar daddy always seems to make contact with you during the nights, or while he is at work, there is a strong chance that he is either in a committed spousal relationship or about to get into one.

2) Although many professionals carry two mobile devices for the sake of keeping their professional and personal life separate, keep in mind that a lot of these men have an ulterior motive. They have baggage. Baggage that you probably don’t want to be a part of.

3) If you find that his choice of meeting is usually relatively far away from where he lives or his place of work, there is a strong chance that he is married and wants to keep things as lowkey as possible.

4) A lot of the time, sugar daddy/sugar baby relationships are usually extremely discrete, in which aliases are used for various reasons. For example, to protect identities in order to keep a barrier between professional and personal life or to prevent either party from social media stalking (or worse).

A lot of these reasons (and potentially more) are enough to help you determine where you stand in his life and what your “title” is. Are you his sultry mistress, or his only lover? Wherever you stand in his life, just make sure you are clear on things so that you can look out for your best interests.

Be Clear on What Type of Sugar Daddy You’re Seeking

Although the thought of hanging out with a married man is extremely distasteful, there is only so much research as a sugar baby that you can do. And remember girls, sugar dating can also be platonic. As surprising as it may seem, many SD’s don’t mind hanging out with a pretty girl to unwind after a long week of work. Whether it’d be going to the theatre, taking a long stroll along the river bank, or even a spa break away somewhere, having a platonic relationship is possible and it does happen. Now you’re probably thinking how and where. Although I do agree that the chances of this being found are small, there is also an even bigger chance that if you look in all the right places and make it clear exactly what you want from the get go, you will find exactly that. The key sentence being ‘make it clear exactly what you want from the get go’.

Check out the LetsTalkSugar site if you need help dialing in what you’re looking for in a sugar daddy. If you’re attracting the wrong type of sugar daddy consider having someone review your profile to make sure you’re clearly stating what you’re looking for. This is extremely important, because if you do not state specifically what you are seeking, you could end up being in the potentially awkward situation of being his mistress (if you’re looking to avoid that).

Although personally, I’d rather not be with a married man, everybody’s situation is different. He could still be legally married, but still undergoing a messy divorce, or he could be separated from his wife and heading towards a divorce. Either way, make sure you’re aware of what you’re getting into, that way you have the upper hand if things go wrong. Remember to determine and be clear about what you’re seeking and always look out for your interests.