Now that summer is coming to an end, many Babies are headed back to college. As someone who Sugared my way through college in New York City, I empathize with how stressful it can be to juggle Sugaring and studying. Here are a few tips about the balancing act of college Sugar Babies to help you navigate the upcoming school year.
The absolute best thing you can do to relieve the stress from juggling school and Sugar is to be extremely organized and plan ahead. Find a system that works for you and stick with it! There are a couple articles on ways to stay organized. However, if you’re still stressed out and overwhelmed, I recommend making separate lists of all the things you have to do for school and Sugar. Then, break the items down to smaller, more manageable tasks and schedule them into your calendar. Stick to your lists and find small ways to reward yourself as you go!
DON’T MISS CLASS
Speaking of scheduling, DO NOT get in the habit of missing class for Daddies, not to mention POT dates. A practical way to avoid this temptation is to schedule your classes around your Sugar calendar, if possible. This is probably most helpful for Babies with some experience. If you have an SD that can only meet during the day, then night classes are the way to go; if you’re constantly going on dinner dates, then late morning/early afternoon classes are best. If you travel a lot, try to squeeze all your classes into two or three days—that way, you have a four- or five-day block where you’re free to escape with Daddy.
However, sometimes the classes you have to take are scheduled during inconvenient times. Such is life! Even still, do not miss class for Sugaring. Not only will skipping class put you behind, but it also sends the message that you don’t take your education seriously, which in turn makes the search for a reliable Daddy that much harder. Along those lines, a POT that pressures you to skip class for a date sends a very clear signal that he doesn’t respect you or your goals and is therefore not SD material. Don’t let his accomplishments intimidate you; he will respect you more if you stand by your goals.
STAY MOTIVATED & SHARE YOUR SUCCESS
Perhaps the hardest part of balancing Sugar and college is having the discipline to keep going, especially when you’re exhausted or feeling down. It’s not all sunshine and rainbows! If you’re burnt out, take a few minutes to recharge: listen to some music, meditate, work out, or do whatever helps you find your center. Then, focus on what you’d like to accomplish and get back to work. Hang in there and you’ll find your success in no time!
Last, but certainly not least, don’t forget to share your success with your SD. Keep in mind that many men sign up on SeekingArrangement specifically looking for bright, motivated college Sugar Babies. So by all means, use that to your advantage by sharing your accomplishments, big or small. And don’t forget to thank him for offering his support and guidance along the way. These simple gestures will mean the world to him!
Good luck and happy Sugaring!