Handling Sugar Baby Stares

By Deena

Jan 29, 2016

It is a Saturday night, and your Sugar Daddy is taking you out to a swanky new place that you have been dying to go to. You’re dressed to the nines, knocking back $20 martinis and enjoying each others company, talking about your dreams and aspirations. And then for one fraction of a second, you get distracted and that’s when they catch your eye… the dreaded stare downs and disapproving looks.

Being stared at, be it out of jealousy or disapprovingly, comes hand in hand with being a Sugar Baby. Everyone wants to know how two people with such an obvious age difference can be enjoying themselves in the manner of which you two are. Whether you’re just laughing and having a lively conversation, or sneaking a few kisses here and there and holding hands, you are sure to grab a few glances. There are many ways to deal with these unwanted looks, here are a few tips to help you succeed.

Think about it…

If you are a person who does not like attracting attention, or easily gets affected by the opinion of strangers and others who do not matter, rethink how you want to go about being in public with your Sugar Daddy/Momma. Maybe you will notice that this kind of scrutiny is something you are not ready for yet.

Tone it down…

Maybe after all that thinking you will realize that you don’t mind the lifestyle. If that is the case, then try toning things down to blend into your surroundings. If you’re trying to blend in, you may not want to be wearing five inch stilettos, a mink coat and designer everything for a Starbucks coffee date, now would you? Look up the attire for the places in which you are going to for your dates to get a feel of what to wear and stick to outfits, accessories and hairstyles that help you fit in with the environment.

Shrug it off…

Being a Sugar Baby is all about having confidence. Having that confidence allows you to be the queen you are and enjoy the time you are having with your Sugar Daddy/Momma. If you are tasked with those onlookers who wish to be in your designer shoes, just shrug it off and keep knocking back those $20 martinis and enjoy the company you are having, because let’s be real here, you’re probably never going to see them again. So why worry about the opinion of sheep?

Smile and wave…

Sometimes after a while in this lifestyle, you become numb to the looks, and just have fun with it. When times like that occur and you want people to just mind their business so you can go back to enjoying your time, flash a smile and maybe a wink in their direction, let them know that you see them drooling at your glamour. Depending on how comfortable you are with the company, lean in for a kiss, or a hug, or even something simple as grabbing their hand. Eat up the attention! Just means that you look as fabulous as you feel.