When it comes down to it, there may just come a time when you meet someone and they find out you’re a sugar baby, or there may come a time when you decide that you want to be open about the fact that you are a sugar baby and you don’t want to hide it- and the fact is, it’s totally okay if you do want to be open about it, when it comes down to it, you should always do what is best for you but you’re going to have to accept the fact that you will get a lot of questions, so here is a few ways to deal with some of the common questions you may get.
Be ready for questions
The fact is, you’re going to get a lot of questions and if you’re going to be open about it you’re going to have to accept the fact that you are going to get a lot of questions. So, I suggest having a few ideas on how you’re going to handle things. People are going to want to know what it’s like, what actually is involved in being a sugar baby, and about three billion other questions that anyone can think of- and I assure you, at one point you’re going to think you hear the stupid question anyone could think of and then you’re going to hear an even stupider one.
Don’t bother getting offended
The fact is, there are going to be people who judge you and there are going to be people who get offended by you. But there is no point in getting offended by people who refuse to be understanding and those who ask completely, utterly, crazy offensive and ignorant questions about you and your lifestyle and your daddy.
The sad part is that there is no point in getting offended by the stupid things that people ask you or say to you when they find out- so the best thing you can do for yourself is just to laugh it off and, wholeheartedly, tell them that you wish them the best and throw in a “bless your heart” on your way out.
You’re allowed to keep things to yourself
When it comes down to it, you are 100% entitled to your own life and you’re allowed to keep things to yourself, just because you have an interesting life does not mean that you have to be open about it and that people get to be involved in your life. It also doesn’t mean that people get to delve into your personal life and get to know every single one of your details.
You get to decide what you tell people and what you don’t tell people. You also get to decide if you tell people about your lifestyle- while it’s an awesome way to show more people about your lifestyle and show people what the lifestyle is actually like, it’s not your responsibility to show people their perception isn’t always true.
This is a great time to have a blog
If you have a blog or some other social media site where you talk about your sugaring lifestyle, this is a great time that you can just give someone a link to your social media account so that you don’t have to sit there and answer all the usual questions, it’s also a great way to build your following for those social media sites so that people can get a better look into your life- and it’s an easy way to end a conversation that you get sick of having all the time.