The Older Daddies
The real older man experience isn’t just a couple years older. Instead, it is at least a decade in advance. This type of Sugar Daddy can offer you a completely different perspective and experience from his typical younger counterparts.
There is no substitution for experience, and your older suitor has had many more years to accumulate and learn from them. He has undoubtedly made all the mistakes imaginable in his younger days and is in a better position to foresee problems. He can help advise and guide you through whatever you might be dealing with.
By the time a man is in his 40s, he’s most likely had a few serious relationships, which means that he knows how to navigate emotions and is not foolish or idealistic about love. He knows that commitment is work. He is also past the ‘playing games’ stage, meaning that he won’t wait an arbitrarily prescribed about of time before returning your call. With maturity can often bring a certain security too. Therefore, they are more likely to be secure in who they are and more open to commitment in the form of a meaningful relationship.
PRO: Sexually Experienced
The more partners or sex he’s had before, the more opportunities he’s had to perfect his throw down. He knows what he wants in bed, isn’t afraid to ask for it and also should damn well know by now how to please you.
Now onto the less appealing attributes…
A man who pays all the bills and feels he is in charge may believe he is owed something. He is entrenched in his life and you will be conforming to his way. If he’s used to storing cereal in those airtight Tupperware containers or not parting with his shabby slippers of ten years, don’t expect him to change his ways just because you have arrived on the scene.
Some men may not have actually gained wisdom over their years, only a sense that they know it all. This leads to condescension and a fatherly patronisation that is distinctly unsexy. A wise man is the man who knows that he knows nothing.
Time and gravity are unfortunate bed-fellows. Unless your Sugar Daddy has got a good dermatologist to hand, it’s likely he’s already started to wilt by the time you got to him. Whilst a few facial wrinkles definitely add character and gravitas to a man, it is worth knowing there are other less visible places on the body that sag!
The Younger Daddies
You can’t argue with biology. Men reach their sexual prime in their twenties due to a spike in testosterone, whilst women typically reach theirs in their 30s and 40s. Add to that, the fact younger guys have more stamina and you just may have a match made in orgasm heaven. Whilst an older man might have experience on his side, your younger lover will (hopefully) be able to last longer and want it more often.
PRO: Fun to Date
Sure, you’ll have the usual dinner dates, but also be ready for a spontaneous 10km hike one weekend followed by an indie rock concert the next. Younger men are as adventurous outside of the bedroom as they are inside it and they’ll bring out the more youthful, vibrant side in you.
PRO: Less Baggage
When you enter into a new relationship, it’s no secret you’re bringing former boyfriends and any mess that entails along with you. However, a younger guy is likely to be packing less, including former marriages and even children. The younger and less experienced he is, the more open he’ll be in his relationship with you.
And on to the potential downsides…
CON: He is Scared of Commitment
It can be hard to get a younger man to put a ring on it. Some men are not ready for all of the pressures and responsibilities that come with a committed relationship. Their emotional maturity is not fully developed yet. He is either scared of love or does love you, but feels like marriage means giving up his freedom.
Whilst it isn’t for everyone, your biological clock for children may be ticking away. His might not even be turned off. Women in their mid-20s to early 30s are in their prime for baby-making. However, younger men generally don’t have the inclination. So if you do want kids, it could be several years until your youthful partner is ready to face the reality of raising one.
CON: The ‘Mummy’ Complex
The chemistry is there and you’re on the same page about a lot of things. But is he expecting you to do everything for him? A younger man can sometimes make his girlfriend feel more like a mother-figure than a lover. Younger Sugar Daddies can often be drawn to a more maternal type of woman who will take care of them.
Ultimately, although age can factor in to the equation. It really comes down to your chemistry, connection and most importantly, how he treats you. So let’s talk! Have you got an older Sugar Daddy? Or a younger one? What was your experience? Comment below!