Beauty isn’t one size fits all. So in a world where 34 percent of Americans are overweight, why are the movies and popular culture only showing the skinny models riding off into the sunset with their one true love? In reality, all shapes and sizes are capable of finding ‘their person,’ as Meredith Gray would say. The Sugar Bowl is no exception. Here is some plus size Sugar advice to help anyone struggling with confidence.
Love Thy Self
Before jumping into the Sugar Bowl, you need to make friends with your own reflection. You will never be able to make a man happy if you aren’t happy with yourself–curves and all. When you are just getting started, your profile should radiate positivity. Somedays it may seem like “thin is in” but keep in mind some of the most beautiful and success women in history were not size zeros–Marilyn Monroe was a size 14. Connect with that heritage — and the heritage of big, beautiful women. Know that you are beautiful and can take on any POT that comes your way!
Be Honest with Photos
The hardest part for women with curves is finding the perfect photo that showcases everything she wants it to! While it may be tempting to put an “old” photo of you from 5 years ago and 3 sizes smaller, it’s not fair to the POTs. After all, you would be disappointed if you were meeting up with a POT and he turned out to look nothing like his photo. Pick a photo that accentuates your frame, and showcases bits about you, like your hobbies and above all your sparkling personality and seductive smile. Your weight doesn’t define you or hold you back, make sure your profile and photos showcase that mantra!
Move Past Rejection
You know what you are looking for when it comes to a Sugar Daddy. You also know what you are attracted to and what kind of man you don’t want to encounter. We all have our preferences when it comes to dating, so when a man isn’t interested in you, don’t take it personally. It’s important to remind yourself that rejection happens to everyone. It’s just part of dating. The answer is to date more, not less. Rejection hurts a lot less when you have a date lined up for the next night.
Dress to Accentuate
Once you’ve landed the dates you want, always look your best. Dress as you would for any event. Wear clothing that flatters your curves. There is a lot to consider when creating an image, pay extra attention to all elements of your appearance like hair, makeup, clothing and accessories. Being dressed in something that’s comfortable and that makes you feel good shows in your body posture, your walk, and in your eyes — all of which are things that engage potential Sugar Daddies in a positive way.
Feel free to connect with Sugar Sisters and other BBW in our BBW section of the forum on Let’s Talk Sugar.
What advice do have for voluptuous women in the Sugar Bowl?