It always makes me sad to hear about Sugar Babies having a bad experience and leaving the Sugar Bowl before they get the full experience. There’s a reason people stay in the Sugar Bowl for years, keep coming back to it or just look back on their time in it with such fond memories. When done well Sugaring can help more than just your bank account, let’s look at how being an Sugar Baby can make you a better person.
Improve Your Social Skills
Being a SB forces you to be graceful in sometimes unconventional situations. You learn how to socialize effortlessly with people you otherwise wouldn’t. Sometimes because of age, gender or economic gaps you and your Sugar Daddy don’t agree on issues, but you learn how to disagree gracefully while still being true to your beliefs.
In an ever more technology focused world you will stand out for being able to relate on a personal level.
Build Your Confidence
Being a Sugar Baby means you should know what you bring to the table and how valuable it is. Knowing that for every Sugar Daddy there’s 10-14 Sugar Babies and you managed to find good arrangements reminds you that even in a pool of exceptional people you stand out!
Even better, hopefully you’ve used your time to analyze your strengths and weaknesses so you can continually learn to better yourself while maintaining your strengths.
The other form of confidence you gain is from stepping outside your comfort zone. Because of the stigma attached to Sugar, along with all the unique challenges of it you’ve put yourself out there in a new way. This confidence can carry over into your personal and professional life.
Being a Sugar Baby hasn’t always been easy and it can be downright uncomfortable when discussing finances but going through the process of negotiating an allowance will only make you better. You will have to know what you want, why you should get it and be willing to openly discuss a tricky subject. These skills will help you in your professional life when you go to ask for a raise or salary comes up in a job interview.
Make You A Better Partner
Being a Sugar Baby means in order to attain a coveted long term arrangement with a set allowance means you’ve not only had to find a suitable partner, go through negotiations, but you also have to maintain it.
In traditional dating people get complacent, they get used to each other and stop trying as hard with each other. In the Sugar Bowl there’s no room for complacency. You continually have to be exceptional and treat your partner with your best version of yourself and vice versa.
It teaches you to pay attention to the moment, appreciate what you have and only be with a great partner.
The Sugar Bowl is the perfect place to practice tactful honesty. Since it’s not a traditional relationship it allows you the opportunity to be more straightforward with your goals and what you are looking for. It can teach you to be honest not just with your Sugar Daddy but with yourself. Learning to be honest with yourself and others even when it’s uncomfortable is only going to help you live a less complicated, happier lifestyle.
You are welcome to share any other valuable lessons you’ve learned in the comments section below!