How to Use Femininity to Your Advantage
Because modern-day society rewards masculine energy, “strong women” wear pants and behave like men in the corporate world. They think when they look like men they can compete with men. Most Sugar Babies are ambitious women who want to have a successful future. Whether their femininity is an advantage or disadvantage has become a frequent topic of discussion. Now I’d like to clarify that femininity is a Sugar Baby’s No. 1 advantage and in this article, you will learn how to leverage this gift!
Why femininity is a huge advantage
Women love fashion and makeup by nature. We are biologically programmed to attract men. When current magazines show you pictures of boring outfits that make you look masculine (and they claim that’s the popular look now), I would argue that those magazines are misleading. Let me explain: Because the goal of wearing a new outfit is to attract men, you have to understand what elements men find attractive. The truth is men are attracted to elements that can’t appear on themselves, i.e. lace, flowers, pearls, butterflies, love hearts, pink, etc. If something can’t be worn by a guy, it’s the right item to have! Therefore, smart Sugar Babies are always equipped with feminine outfits!
How to look more feminine
In order to look more feminine, you need to make sure your clothes, hair, and makeup are all done in a feminine way. Do some research and find out which fashion brands offer feminine clothes. Don’t cut your hair too short. Wear a hot pink lip color. A great way to upgrade your feminine look is to wear statement earrings. When your gorgeous earrings are shining through your sexy hair, Sugar Daddies can’t resist that!
How to behave in a more feminine way
Never talk with a loud voice. Studies found that when a person is talking with a loud voice, others are more likely to be absent-minded. They think since this person’s voice is so loud, it’s impossible for them to miss anything. In contrast, when you talk with a gentle voice, people actually pay more attention to you because they think they need to listen more carefully. That’s the power of a feminine voice. Also, when you wear high heels you walk like a lady. You can practice walking in high heels if you are not sure whether you can do it well.
Where does the feminine power come from?
Because a high-value Sugar Baby has core confidence she dares to behave in a feminine in a gentle way. She doesn’t need to look like the toughest person in the world. Her core confidence is the source of the feminine power. When she looks like a real lady Sugar Daddies automatically want to help her because successful men want to feel that they are needed by sweet women.
Bonus Tip
Researchers conducted an experiment with two groups of women: Group A sat down at a table with a cup of hot drink in front of each person. Group B sat down at another table with a glass of cold drink in front of each individual. Then everybody talked to a stranger that they’d never met before. Thirty minutes later every woman evaluated what they thought of the stranger that they talked to. The findings are a bit surprising: all members in Group A gave positive feedback on the person they talked to, whereas nearly all members in Group B gave relatively negative feedback on the person they talked to.
Researchers analyzed the footage of each conversation and realized that when Group A was talking to strangers. Everyone in this group looked more gentle, relaxed and warm. By contrast, women in Group B looked colder. Researchers interviewed those strangers who participated in the study and found similar results: those who talked to women in Group A considered these women feminine, radiant and beautiful. Those who talked to women in Group B considered these women to be high-maintenance or difficult to deal with! Next time when you date a Sugar Daddy, make sure you two have a hot drink on your first date. That alone will make your dynamics more feminine!
Hey, Jade- Fellow LTS Contributor Charmlessgirl here. I enjoyed reading your post until I came across things like, “Women love fashion and makeup by nature.”, “the goal of wearing a new outfit is to attract men, you have to understand what elements men find attractive.”, “Don’t cut your hair too short.” and, most alarmingly, ” …when you wear high heels you walk like a lady.’ I fear these patriarchal, misogynistic portrayals, may unwittingly lead some Sugar Babies astray. Let’s unpack some of these statements. 1) “Feminine” women do not necessarily love fashion and make-up “by nature” (I didn’t) and to imply so alienates the many feminine women on this site who do not share those interests. 2) I don’t know why you’re buying new clothes, but the goal of wearing a new outfit for me is to feel confident, polished, and sexy. And that, my dear, is what attracts men- the sexiness and confidence emanating from YOU and not necessarily from the attention-getting clothes you wear. 3) You write, “Don’t cut your hair too short.” Wow. Your definition of “femininity” seems woefully narrow. Some of the sexiest women in the world have short hair (Halle Berry, Charlize Theron, Michelle Williams, Angela Bassett)! Beauty, femininity, and sexiness do not have a one one-size-fits-all formula and you’d be wise to consider that when counseling these precious Babies in the future.
As you rightly assert, “Her core confidence is the source of the feminine power.”!!! Meaning, all the make-up, high heels, and sexy dresses in the world can’t replace confidence. Also, not sure what “having a hot drink” with your SD has to do with accentuating femininity…
xoxo, cg
Hi CHARMLESSGIRL,
Thanks for the detailed comment. I understand what you mean and I’m pretty sure your viewpoint is positive and helpful in many ways.
I’m very sorry that you don’t like this article. Because the title of this article is about how to use femininity as a tool to get what sugar babies want, here is a clearer way to look at it: Women doll up not to please men, but to make men please women.
My content is not mainstream-friendly because I mostly write red pill information. I’m happy to explain the issues that you have mentioned here:
1. “Women love fashion and makeup by nature”. I think a more accurate way to rephrase this statement is: “Most feminine women love fashion and makeup”. That comes from evolution – women are biologically programmed to attract men for reproduction reasons. Amongst most animal species, the males are the pretty sex that doll up to attract females. Yet humans are the only species that shows the opposite situation: women are the pretty sex that doll up to attract men. A woman’s beautiful clothes and makeup are designed to attract men’s attention in various ways. Small wonder fashion and makeup industries are multibillion-dollar industries. However, not every feminine woman is interested in fashion and makeup by nature, so I think you are right.
2. “Because the goal of wearing a new outfit is to attract men, ….” A more considerate way to rephrase this statement should be: “Because probably the ultimate goal of wearing a new outfit is to attract men, …” Like you said, you buy a new outfit to feel confident and sexy, so your confidence and sexiness attract men. That’s absolutely correct. What I’ve explained in this article directly linked Point A (wearing a new outfit) to Point C (attracting men), so I think adding Point B (feeling confident and sexy) is more clear.
3. “Don’t cut your hair too short.” The topic of this article is using femininity to polarise men, so this idea about not cutting your hair too short is mentioned in the article. Femininity is just one approach, and there are hundreds of other approaches. So, it doesn’t mean women should stick to this approach every day. I probably should have referenced the international best-selling book “The Rules” because “Don’t cut your hair too short” and “when you wear high heels, you walk like a lady” come from that dating book which was created by the world’s leading dating advice company for women. Maybe a more precise way to rephrase the high heels’ statement is “When you wear high heels, you walk like a very feminine lady.” I personally don’t think that’s absolutely, positively true, and I simply used those statements to support this point: Think about what is not supposed to appear on most men, and wear that on you – that’s using femininity to polarise men (strategic and analytical thinking). By the way, like you mentioned, there are definitely many sexy women with short hair; nevertheless, statistics show that most men find women with long hair more attractive because: A). When a woman has short hair, the focus is her face; therefore, if her face is very pretty, having short hair is probably better because short hair emphasises her beautiful face. But not every woman is lucky enough to have a very pretty face, so some women may prefer long hair which decorates their faces. B). The majority of men don’t have long hair, so when they see a woman with long hair, they tend to pay more attention because traditionally long hair indicates femininity which attracts the masculine energy’s attention.
Because this article is for a blog which have thousands of visitors daily, it’s impossible to accommodate every woman’s needs. Therefore, probably a disclaimer is necessary: The content in this article is for general information purpose only and should not replace counselling sessions which are tailored according to each individual’s situation.
Lastly, as to the “having a hot drink” idea, that comes from a study conducted by researchers: When a woman is talking to a man while having a hot drink, their interactions seem to be more positive (probably because the hot drink helps them create warmer and better dynamics); meanwhile, those men who talked to women having hot drinks feel these women are more feminine, radiant and beautiful. It’s only a study that I have read, so I can’t say that’s 100% right. But it’s just something interesting to know and experiment with.
Cheers,
Jade Seashell