When you and your daddy agree to explore having more than one partner in your arrangement, it will be a lot of getting used to and it will be a lot of time taken to figure things out. And the fact of the matter is that there may come a time when your daddy will find a new sugar baby and you will have to welcome her into not just your daddy’s life but also yours.
Welcoming a sugar sister into your life can be hard, but here are a few ways that you can do it, as well as make her feel welcome and make sure your daddy is happy and well taken care of.
Take the time to talk to daddy about her
It’s important to sit down and talk to daddy about everything before moving forward too much. Get to know her through him and get to understand why he cares about her and why he wants to welcome her into his life. It may not be easy to understand and it may not be easy to accept, but open communication from the get-go is the key to making things work.
Talk to daddy about his feelings for her, his interest in her, and what kind of relationship he wants to have with her (will it be a full relationship or is it more of a sex thing for them?) and show daddy that you’re trying to make sure you all build a solid foundation for what will happen next.
Arrange a meeting with her and daddy
Ideally, this should be pretty short the first time. A quick coffee or something like that will be perfect. Let you meet your sugar sister but understand it’s going to be a little awkward and embrace it because it will be one of the fastest ways to get over it.
When you do meet your POT sugar sister, make sure you be respectful and don’t flaunt the fact that you’re already daddy’s baby. Don’t paw at him, don’t reference inside jokes the two of you have and don’t rub it in her face that you’re having sex with the man she’s interested in. When you part ways, let her know that you’re happy you met her and end the meeting with a hug.
Hang out with her – Just you two
If things go well with your POT sugar sister the first meeting, after a few dates between her and daddy, suggest the two of you get a chance to hang out- just you girls. It’s important to make sure you get to know her, even if it may seem uncomfortable.
Understand the fact that it may be awkward
Because it will be. There is no way around it, but if you and your sugar sister can get along it will be no time before you two are close like sisters! Don’t bother hiding from the fact it’s awkward, instead embrace it so that you two are able to get things out of the way and you can answer any questions she may have and she can answer any questions you may have.
Get each other’s contact info
Take the time to get her contact info so that you two are able to text if you need to. Even if you and your sugar sister don’t get along well, it’s always good to have the option to be able to text, call, message, or whatever. Then you don’t have to worry about relying on daddy to pass along messages or schedule everything.
Be aware of your mental health
You’ll be going through a lot of thoughts as your daddy starts to explore the idea of you getting a sugar sister, be sure to focus on your mental health and make sure that you are taking care of yourself during the whole thing.