His original message was very straight forward and he appeared to be rather handsome. His profile said he was “Married but looking” which didn’t surprise me. Half the guys on the site have wives. Anyway, we exchanged a couple of message and had one phone conversation before we decided to meet at a local Starbucks the next day.
The First Meet
I was super nervous. This was my first time ever meeting a POT from the site and I was hoping that he wouldn’t detect my uneasiness. I arrived early and sat in the very back of the cafe so we could have a little privacy. When he arrived, he was super excited to see me and showered me with compliments.
He grabbed a cup of coffee and we got right down to business. Now, I know that many Sugar Babies suggest that you don’t discuss allowance or mention money problems on a first date, but this Daddy was “all about the numbers,” as he put it.
I was honest with him. I told him I needed to get out of a bind and he was willing to help. Our attraction was almost instant and we both were looking forward to getting to know each other better. There was just one little thing – I had to meet his wife.
An Open-Minded Relationship
You see, Daddy and his wife are, what you call, polyamorous (a word I had never heard before meeting them). In case you are wondering, they aren’t swingers or into threesomes. They just simply have an open marriage and date other people from time to time, as long as the other spouse “blesses” the extra marital relationship.
Daddy reassured me that his wife was cool and she’d met some of his other girls (even befriended some of them) in the past. I agreed to meet her but had no idea Daddy would arrange dinner at a local hotel for the three of us later that night.
My First Throuple
I pulled up to the hotel just in time to see them walk in. They looked like such a normal couple and I couldn’t help but to stare at them. I sat in my parked car for a few minutes to calm my nerves. I took a deep breath, looked at myself in the mirror, and walked over to the restaurant.
Daddy greeted me at the door and walked me over to the table. There she was. His wife was seated with a smile on her face. I smiled back, introduced myself, and had a seat at the table. His wife suggested that we order our food so that the waiter wouldn’t interrupt as we discussed our arrangement.
The conversation went surprisingly well and I felt myself loosening up as the night went on. They were so warm, normal and open. This may sound crazy but I was actually enjoying the conversation with his wife more than I did the conversation I had with him at Starbucks.
So the Story Goes…
After that night, Daddy and I dated short-term but it was a great first arrangement. He was the perfect gentlemen when we were together and he kept all of his promises. I even went on a few outings with his wife when he was away on business.
I share this story because I want Sugars to keep an open mind when it comes to dating. If I would have been judgmental or close-minded, I would have missed out on a great arrangement. And hey, if they didn’t mind sharing each other with other people, who am I to judge?