During my early days on Seeking Arrangement I received a message from a married couple that was looking for a Sugar Baby. The husband and wife cited a shared attraction to natural redheads, and that I seemed like a perfect fit both appearance- and personality-wise. They were looking for a woman to take out on dates that any traditional couple would go on. The only difference is it would be the three of us. They offered a generous weekly allowance for an ongoing arrangement.
At first I was averse to the idea. I considered myself to be heterosexual with literally no attraction to women. However, Alex and Melanie’s proposal seemed harmless enough. I could tell by their messages that they were nice people. Additionally, they were an attractive couple. I adopted a “don’t knock it ‘til you try it” type of attitude, and agreed to meet with them over drinks to acquaint and gauge chemistry. And so began my experience as a Sugar Baby to a Married Couple.
A few minutes after our date started, I found myself opening up easily to them. They knew that I’d never had a romantic encounter with a woman, and were accommodating of my desire to take things slowly. After having a few drinks, they told me that they would be interested in seeing me again the following week. By this point, I had grown comfortable with the idea of proceeding with an arrangement. We made tentative plans to meet the following week for more drinks. The couple then called a cab for me, and as I was saying “goodbye” to them, Alex handed me an envelope. Inside was a greeting card, thanking me for meeting with them, and our agreed-upon weekly allowance.
My next few dates with Alex and Melanie went similarly to our first date. I met with the couple for dinner, drinks. We continued to get to know one another. We discovered that we shared a sense of humor, musical tastes, and several values and political views. At the end of each date, they called a cab for me, and slipped my allowance to me as we said our goodbyes.
When I arrived at their spacious loft in Brooklyn via a cab they’d called for me, I was transported to another world. The lights were dimmed, and soft jazz music was playing. An array of hors d’oeuvres was laid out upon their dining table. Melanie pulled two bottles of Sancerre (my favorite) out of the fridge, and asked which one I’d like to start with. I felt like I was receiving star treatment, and was flattered by their hosting gestures!
Without going into too much detail, we took the “next step” in our arrangement that night. I was pleasantly surprised at how smoothly things went, given my reservations about being with a woman. The experience was enjoyable, and I wasn’t opposed to doing it again. I learned that while I may prefer men, I can also have fun with a woman.
Nothing is Forever
Like with most arrangements, my time with Alex and Melanie proved to be finite. They decided to start a family, and scaled back on their involvement with me. Eventually, we stopped spending time together completely. I appreciate that they opened me up to a new experience, and in the process, treated me with utmost kindness and respect. Because of my pleasant experience with Alex and Melanie, I’m not opposed to having an arrangement with a couple in the future. More than anything, I will always miss their friendship and be thankful for the memories they left me with!