Hey Sugars! So I have been on SA about a month and have also had success with bumble. I think I may have finally found a SD, the M&G went well. We agreed on a pay per meet type of arrangement and the amount. But I forgot to ask how I would recieve it. I just texted asking if he would be comfortable sending it via paypal upon my arrival to the date. But I am wondering if there is a better more sugar friendly transfer app that y’all use? I know paypal has rules on reporting certain amounts that i have to make sure I don’t exceed. Thanks everyone!
Have you considered cash?
I know I cancelled a M&G on a POT SB when she suggested PayPal, then was not happy with a cash option, then sent me a YouTube video on something that would meet both our needs. I’m sorry, if the simplicity of cash when I see you face to face is to difficult, I can pass.
I did not even bother to watch the video.
Cash is King as SFwinefan stated. A envelope slipped into the SB purse is my preferred method.
Anything electronic leaves a trace and most apps the sender can rescind the payment.
Yep, cash in the ol’ envelope – treat her just like a escort!
PayPal or the equivalent is what gentlemen do…if “getting paid” is your main concern, you’ve definitely picked the wrong guy.
If all POT SDs were gentlemen, receiving an allowance via Paypal would be fine. Unfortunately, they’re not, and I’ve read too many reports of women getting scammed when the Paypal transaction is reversed the night after intimacy with her ‘SD’ who then ghosts her.
I don’t mind gifting an allowance with Paypal, Cashapp, Zelle, Bitcoin or Louboutins if that’s what SB prefers. But until I’ve earnt her trust, I’ll go the discreet cash in an envelope route.
Thanks everyone! I don’t have a physical bank as my bank is only online which is why cash is a little more difficult for me. But I suppose I could always use a money order to pay my bills. Sounds like cash is king and y’all are right that it doesn’t leave a trail.
@birdybelle read this blog I wrote about receiving an allowance. Take note of last paragraph.
Just take another note that there are alot of apparent hustlers on this board who think that after having sex with a lady they will just invade her privacy by opening her purse and slipping in some cash!
Seems there are at least two, maybe more predators on this site…so ladies disregard their advice as their response shows who they are!
The promise of cash after sex is obviously a hustle. The gift of cash the first time you meet each month, regardless of whether that’s a platonic catch up over coffee or a weekend in Paris, is a sugar relationship.
Rifling through the contents of a ladies purse; invasion of privacy. Sliding an envelope into your dates purse; not so much. IMHO. I’ve never felt the need to search through my dates purse, pockets or phone.
Until you get to really know each other, many ladies just seem to feel more comfortable if they don’t need to directly address or acknowledge the allowance issue when you’re together.
@birdybelle The most most common method is cash. PayPal transactions can be reversed. I have done CashApp, but I don’t know if those transactions can be reversed. Also, I don’t know about any other rules or limitations. I definitely prefer cash though.
Read @inamorato‘s posts. I think they will help you the most.
You absolutely wrong – cash is what hoes do, ladies have other methods, whether or not they are reversible should be your very, very last concern. LOL
Wait.. we’re supposed to be getting paid?
I prefer cash. My SD uses Venmo/Cashapp when he’s away.
Hoes unite! ✊
OMG. I crack myself up 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@teamswirl that was funny.
Try not to feed the trolls though.😉
You must be logged in to reply to this topic.