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  • #6917

    liz966
    Participant

    I recently joined and there aren’t really any SDs in my area. Does anyone have tips on how to start an international long distance arrangement with an SD?

    • This topic was modified 2 years, 11 months ago by  liz966.
    #6941
    Ambrose
    Ambrose
    Participant

    Do you mind if I ask what country you are from? Truth be told international Sugar Relations are tricky. There are a lot of external issues involved. I avoid them, due to so many potential problems.

    #7030
    Alexis G
    Alexis G
    Participant

    As Ambrose said an international Sugar relationship could be tricky as all long distance relationships are. Depending on what country you live in and what country the SD lives in travel may not be easy between the two and that can put a strain on the relationship. If you come across an international POT that you are interested in and that is interested in you I suggest the two of you discuss logistics before proceeding so that everyone can get what they want out of the relationship.

    #7031
    Alexis G
    Alexis G
    Participant

    As Ambrose said an international Sugar relationship could be tricky as all long distance relationships are. Depending on what country you live in and what country the SD lives in travel may not be easy between the two and that can put a strain on the relationship. If you come across an international POT that you are interested in and that is interested in you I suggest the two of you discuss logistics before proceeding so that everyone can get what they want out of the relationship.

    #43969

    Planetlove
    Participant

    Hello, i already have a profile as a SB, but i don’t want to complete my profile until i have all the information that i need to make the decision of becoming a SB, i found some guys that i like for SD but i lied about the city that i live (as many of us do), im from a latin country (MEXICO), i speak the language very well but in my country there isn’t too many potential SD and a lot of them im quite sure that are fake accounts, do you think that is fine if a lied about my city and then, tell the true to my SD? How this long distance relantionship works? How i supposed to have a conection with someone if that person never meet me? I mind, chat can be good sometimes, but at the end they are going to get tired of never meet me. One last question, there’s SB that has succeeded with a long distance relationship, by countrys apart? If you can give me another advice that you think it will be help full for all the girls that read this, feel free to give it. Thanks for your time and have a great day.

    #43975

    ridethehorse
    Participant

    i found some guys that i like for SD but i lied about the city that i live (as many of us do),

    No, not many of us lie about where we live. In fact, no real SB will. Only scammers. Because that is what you’re doing, you’re deceiving a SD by lying. Lying is THE WORST way to start a relationship. So you think that once you reveal to them you are thousands of miles away they will say “Okay sweetie that’s fine I don’t care that you lied to me let’s grow old together.”
    I have had many SD’s from MX look at my profile and I’m in the US.
    tl;dr no one will start a relationship with a liar. you’re just wasting your time and theirs. Look locally first then extend and be truthful.

    #43986
    Fla_Boater
    Fla_Boater
    Participant

    As a SD, one of my pet peeves for sure. If one can’t be honest about that, what can you believe about the rest of their profile.

    #44046

    Planetlove
    Participant

    Dude relax, you lied about your name and lot of stuff while you’re creating your profile, so i dont know what the big deal is, but thanks for the advice any ways, i will do what you both said

    #44052

    ridethehorse
    Participant

    Woops, busted!! My name is not ride the horse, you got me there! I lied 😅

    #44053
    teamswirl
    teamswirl
    Participant

    @planetlove I am confused. How do you know what she put in her profile? I have not lived in mine and I don’t believe most SBs do. Honesty is the best policy.

    #48919

    SugarPill
    Participant

    Back on topic: I would like to ask a few questions about an international SR.

    – Who has had experiences with international SRs and how were they structured?
    – To the SBs: how do you trust whether to fly out to a SD?
    – When booking aeroplane tickets, I assume full names need to be revealed… how do you maintain discretion and/or privacy?

    Thank you all!

    #49013
    SFwinefan
    SFwinefan
    Participant

    @SugarPill, I have not had an International Arrangement (nor do I plan on one), but I highly recommend a couple of things for your safety:

    1) He comes to you for a M&G and initial meeting – it’s safer on your turf and you are not dependent on him if things go sideways
    2) If you do go to him you must (MUST) have the resources to get yourself home if things do not work out
    3) Most important, know the country you are going to and what risks that entails. Going to the US or Western Europe – relatively low risk destinations with good rule of law. Going to Latin America – riskier to quite risky given challenged legal systems, some Asian and Middle Eastern destinations would leave you at great risk if you go to someone there

    For booking travel, he needs to get you the money so you can book without revealing full details. If that’s an issue – see #1 on my list, it gets around that issue.

    #49101
    DogDaddy
    DogDaddy
    Participant

    The only way you’re going to find an international sugar daddy on SA is if he is searching in your area because he travels there regularly or if you happen to meet one while you’re traveling for other purposes.

    If you lie about your location, he will figure this out and ghost. Same goes with asking for money to buy plane tickets. That sounds absolutely scammy to a sugar daddy and he will quickly ghost.

    I think the odds of finding an international daddy are even smaller than the odds of finding a platonic daddy or online only daddy.

    You basically have to build some sort of solid online relationship with someone before they will ever fly you out or fly to you and SA is clearly not the place for that.

    Imagine a cam girl or porn star and her raving fans or one of those Instagram models that posts nothing of value and has no legit publications, yet she gets flown a bunch of fancy places without ever posting who she’s with. We all know what that “booking info” in her profile is probably for.

    I do vaguely know a couple of ultra rich guys with international sugar babies, but it’s totally not relevant to SA. They just do what super rich guys and super hot girls do. If I can ever make it to their level, I will come back and tell what I’ve learned about making hot Russian models my sugar babies, haha.

    #49159

    SugarPill
    Participant

    @sfwinefan That is great advice, I would love to travel but am very wary of it at the same time…

    @DogDaddy First off, I love your avatar! Shiba or Aka Inu? Secondly, if you ever do find out more about hot Russian models and their SDs, I would be really interested in hearing the stories behind it.

    #49293
    DogDaddy
    DogDaddy
    Participant

    Akita.

    All I know about the Russian models is that they have some sort of agent, maybe even high end pimp. Not much of a story other than mere mortals being unworthy.

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