Major issues with Malaysian SD’s. They expect sex on the first date itself, and when you say no, they force it on you. Even when you say you want something platonic, they’re always trying to get you to have sex. They treat us like sluts and that’s not cool.
Hi Love! Sounds like those men need an escort, not a SB. I always let POT’s know that I’m not interested in a sexual relationship. If they don’t respect that then I simply move on. They’re not worth the time.
Stay safe, Love!
Hi , babygirl207 … Sucks to hear that and I so agree most of them can be really rude and disrespectful too. Try reach out to there locations near by rather than here. Am In KL if you need to talk ..holla 😊
how do they try to force sex on you? i mean what do they do?
i am wondering because i am in malaysia too and i am new to trying sugaring in this country but I am worried about safety. i haven’t met with anyone yet. I’m not worried about sex if the compatibility is discussed and established beforehand, but still it seems like some guys are not so straightforward about that.
This issue with Malaysian SD’s is a common thing, then?
I have found through my dealings with Asia in general and conversing with SB in that area that most the SD think and use sugar websites such as SA as an escort service. There are a few that get the sugar baby thing otherwise their concept of sugar life is totally different then U.S. and Europe.
I am a new SB. not more than 1 month
Basically right now my situation is salt daddy more than sugar daddy
I dunno whether is it because of my size, I am a chubby size / BBW.
Currently I am getting a lot of proposal on short term / one time meet arrangement. I am not that happy especially with those one time meet arrangement with RM300-RM500 per meet (by the way guys, that is not even 10% of my full time job salary) and is quite pathetic and quite a laugh that you dont spend some time to talk to the girls and straight just want to grab and test then dump.Sadly mostly this kind of offer is from local Malaysian SD.
Perhaps they just don’t know the different between escorts and sugar babies.
Secondly, Mostly the topic will just be around the allowance and….my most annoyed topic to talk about at the moment….SEX….and some even introduce me to their little buddy underneath their pants through sending photos….So call themself as a successful persons or expats to behave so low.
I have managed to try to turn to other topic but still they can switch the topic back..seriously beside sex and the allowance, there is no other connections involved for some of them.
Even have two that dissappear to no where after found that I don’t want to give nude photos.
But still I do have a good experiences indeed.
At least he had set the bar high and let me know what kind of daddy that I should find.
Hopefully I can met one that mutual later
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