Major issues with Malaysian SD’s. They expect sex on the first date itself, and when you say no, they force it on you. Even when you say you want something platonic, they’re always trying to get you to have sex. They treat us like sluts and that’s not cool.
Hi Love! Sounds like those men need an escort, not a SB. I always let POT’s know that I’m not interested in a sexual relationship. If they don’t respect that then I simply move on. They’re not worth the time.
Stay safe, Love!
Hi , babygirl207 … Sucks to hear that and I so agree most of them can be really rude and disrespectful too. Try reach out to there locations near by rather than here. Am In KL if you need to talk ..holla 😊
how do they try to force sex on you? i mean what do they do?
i am wondering because i am in malaysia too and i am new to trying sugaring in this country but I am worried about safety. i haven’t met with anyone yet. I’m not worried about sex if the compatibility is discussed and established beforehand, but still it seems like some guys are not so straightforward about that.
This issue with Malaysian SD’s is a common thing, then?
I have found through my dealings with Asia in general and conversing with SB in that area that most the SD think and use sugar websites such as SA as an escort service. There are a few that get the sugar baby thing otherwise their concept of sugar life is totally different then U.S. and Europe.
I am a new SB. not more than 1 month
Basically right now my situation is salt daddy more than sugar daddy
I dunno whether is it because of my size, I am a chubby size / BBW.
Currently I am getting a lot of proposal on short term / one time meet arrangement. I am not that happy especially with those one time meet arrangement with RM300-RM500 per meet (by the way guys, that is not even 10% of my full time job salary) and is quite pathetic and quite a laugh that you dont spend some time to talk to the girls and straight just want to grab and test then dump.Sadly mostly this kind of offer is from local Malaysian SD.
Perhaps they just don’t know the different between escorts and sugar babies.
Secondly, Mostly the topic will just be around the allowance and….my most annoyed topic to talk about at the moment….SEX….and some even introduce me to their little buddy underneath their pants through sending photos….So call themself as a successful persons or expats to behave so low.
I have managed to try to turn to other topic but still they can switch the topic back..seriously beside sex and the allowance, there is no other connections involved for some of them.
Even have two that dissappear to no where after found that I don’t want to give nude photos.
But still I do have a good experiences indeed.
At least he had set the bar high and let me know what kind of daddy that I should find.
Hopefully I can met one that mutual later
I agree girls. Please be aware of jared86 guy who offers non-sexual compensated companionship. I almost died meeting him. One of the most horrendous experience. Please be aware ladies.
If you almost died please make sure that your report goes to the police, not just to this forum.
“Always keep unsolicited d**k pics in a drop box file in case someone turns out to be crazy and you need a back up plan.”
What is the backup plan that involves a box full of dick pics? I’m trying to imagine any scenario where that would help.
Doctor: “We got Donald Trump out of the fire. He is in the ICU.”
C&C: “Will he be okay?”
Doctor: “He will survive, but his face was badly burned. We can’t restore his face because we don’t have a record of what he used to look like.”
C&C: “Don’t worry. I’ve been preparing for this. Get me the box…”
@davidsd good one … but what if your drop box being explore by..your colleagues?
I’m a Malaysian SB. So far so good – M&G was good. One important thing to bare in mind..always always trust your instinct. Make use rule of attractions;)
im a sugar newbie in malaysia as well, KL to be exact , i have trouble with this as well 🙁
i havent clicked with anyone because of this and some part of me wants to give up. i find the people who travel here and leave are quite respectful of my needs and wishes
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