A few days ago I came across an old POT’s phone number. I remember him very clearly. Except the reason it didn’t work out that is. We went on a date at a restaurant in NOVA years ago. I want to say 4-5 years ago. I’m trying to jog my memory I remember he asked me to spend the night but I don’t remember why I didn’t. Anyway, would it be desperate to call him again?
Calling seems a bit desperate. Also, he could well be in a situation/place where he doesn’t want to take a call from an ex-POT-SB and will quickly shut you down. A text message saying you just saw something that made you think about him gives him the chance to respond and start a conversation.