Home Sugar Support™ Forum Money Money offered before first meet in UK. Is this normal/safe?

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    ConservationistToBe
    ConservationistToBe
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    I’ve been reading this website and forum for a while and finally have my first ever date with a POT SD and typically, it already has started differently. He says that he would like for our arrangement to happen only on the caravan site and asked how much I’m looking for to meet with him as he says he always pays before any action (cash).
    Should I give him a number and accept the money or not accept anything until a full discussion about the arrangement has taken place?

    #105494
    SouthernSD
    SouthernSD
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    I don’t know what Caravan is, but any offer to transfer money electronically before meeting is
    always a scam. You can figure it out quick, say “thank you for the offer but you would rather
    They meet first, to discuss arrangement and you only prefer cash.

    If he makes any type of excuse, it’s a scam.

    #105495
    SouthernSD
    SouthernSD
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    #105507
    ConservationistToBe
    ConservationistToBe
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    Hi Southern SD, thanks for the reply! He said cash so I was just confused as everything says the first meeting then get given money. If he gives me money on the first meeting before we’ve discussed the specifics of the arrangement should I accept it. I’m worried that if I do he might try to convince me to have sex on this first meeting

    #105508
    ConservationistToBe
    ConservationistToBe
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    Oh and this type of caravan is like a mobile home but stationary

    #105545
    SFwinefan
    SFwinefan
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    @ConversationistToBe, I just posted in your other thread.

    Basically everything you are posting makes me think he is looking for a quick score. The ‘typical’ rhythm for most sugar relationships is a Meet and Greet (short, quick, validate potential for chemistry), platonic date where arrangement is discussed/agreed to, and then arrangement starts. Many of the SD’s here have slight variations in approach but adhere to something not far off of that (even if M&G and First Date are the same day but separated).

    And Cash before even meeting you or at the M&G is a massive red flag.

    #105565
    valkyrium.tremens
    valkyrium.tremens
    Participant

    Trailer park sugar daddy is another big red flag for me…

    #105584

    westbam
    Participant

    Tell him to look on an Escort site, becasue that’s how obviously what he’s looking for. No judgement, if that’s your bag.

    P.S. I’m a guy BTW!

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