(I was trying to be cute with the types of sugar names 😋. It seems “Brown Sugar” Babies are the only one with a bit of a nick name. Though I may now loosely refer to myself as Turbinado ha! )
Just wondering if there are any minority group SDs on this forum? Or if in your experience as a SB you have run into them often? Experiences? Anyone who has solely had all Asian, Latin, Black or African SDs?
I mostly am pursued by White SDs. For every 15 messages I get maybe 1 will be from a Black or Asian guy. I’m currently in Atlanta.
Wondering about others’ experiences.
My first SD was chinese. He actually was the one that brought me into the sugar bowl. I didn’t have an SA and I met him accidentally freestyling. He was like a real life Mr.Grey (but in a good way) and surprised me with expensive gifts (like left a check for my rent with my landlady after a slight comment that rent was due) and greatly enjoyed BDSM.
One of my current SDs is mixed italian/taiwanese. But other than that I have ran into just tons of white SDs on SA and I’m in the Bay Area/Silicone Valley.
Not sure where the non-white SDs are hiding.
I’ve never ran into sd’s who solely went after one ethnicity, but I personally prefer white guys (even though I’m Asian) 😂😂
Why do you prefer white guys?
I just find them more masculine vs Asian guys, and idk that’s just how it’s always been 😂
My new SD is Asian; he’s smart and funny and definitely no less masculine than anyone else I’ve met off SA.
I’d say Vancouver (though it does have plenty of White POTs) has a reasonable representation of other races from what I’ve seen. I went on 5 M&Gs over the past month and only one of them was with a White guy… he was the saltiest of the bunch too!
I want an Asian SD. No particular reason… I just think Asian guys are hot & wouldn’t mind “tasting the rainbow” 😂. They usually don’t hit on me IRL. The Asian SD I made a move on let me know he was pausing on meeting anyone else because he was seeing if this brand new arrangement worked out. Honest, thoughtful AND handsome? Le sigh…
@princessprettyfrillybottoms the rainbow is pretty tasty so far if you ask me 😉
If I could find a legit ethnic sugar daddy I’d be all over that but most of the ones that try to talk to me are looking for an escort.
I live inAtlanta too. I mostly get messages from white guys too.
ASIAN SD here 🙂
LOL @kwippy18 that’s funny. As an Asian man i can see where you are coming from though
“The Asian SD I made a move on let me know he was pausing on meeting anyone else because he was seeing if this brand new arrangement worked out.”
At least he was being honest and open about it.
A lot of other POT SDs do the same things yet they won’t tell you.
First of all, I LOVE those names; you are very creative, hahaha.
I, personally, only pursue Black SDs, and my current SD is Black. The vast majority of the views, favorites, and messages I get are from white men, though. As in about 95% 😂. I find that the Black SDs I contact are not very active on SA for whatever reason, even when I reach out, but the white ones who come across my profile tend to view and message me multiple times even though I don’t entertain them. One guy favorited and messaged me, I declined and blocked him, and he remade his profile two more times to message me again. I blocked him each time. It was weird.
@SweetTea May I ask which location you find these unicorns. ALL the black men I’ve come across want an escort. One even told me SDs is a white mans thing. I like white men but I’d love a black daddy not a pimp tho. Why can’t the men in my area figure this out?
Hahaha, I see a lot from between NY, PA, South Jersey, Delaware, and DC. There have been some real gentlemen and some flakes, but no one has ever spoken to me like an escort. I’m sorry you’ve had that experience! Are there a lot of strip clubs or anything near you? Maybe the men are assuming SA is a more organized way of getting in touch with those women in the area?
I’m honestly not surprised someone told you being an SD is for white men. I definitely thought it was when I first joined SA. But still, if he acknowledges that, and there are white men elsewhere willing to provide what he won’t… he better not expect you to stick around! I rebuke all the wastemen in your life and sincerely hope your luck gets better. I support you going wherever your value is recognized.
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