Just did some research on the site about background checking. I ran one on my most recent SD. The check came back as sketch bc there were multiple variations of names with a different bday and same work history.
I’ve asked a few others and was advised to just be up front and ask him about it and then ask for references. He said he was with one other SB before she moved to TX. I know it would probably be a bit awkward, but if she’s real I’d like to talk to her to see what she would say.
Has anyone run into this before? Or anything similar? I forgot about the check until later bc he seems so genuine. He’s already paid me a monthly allowance twice. All advice is welcome. Thanks in advance.
If he’s paid you your monthly allowance twice, what are you worried about?
IMO it’s a bit late to be asking for references – and I’m not sure how cool the SD and former SB would be with this idea, so don’t be surprised if they say no.
I’m confused about what ‘background check’ you ran.
Most SDs won’t share their ‘real’ identities in the early days anyway, so the fact that you couldn’t perform a proper background check isn’t all that surprising.