@tallty The information you seek is repeated in profile advice literally hundreds of times on this forum. Read through them. Others with more time and patience than I likely will come along and spell it out once again but I’ll offer you three problems with your profile succinctly.
1) Pictures. Frankly you’re beautiful. Put more pictures up. Dressed up, figure, etc.
2) “I have bad luck with men” – Negative, red flag, possible drama
3) “start off slow as in texting and calling” – This is an accelerated dating scenario. It’s fine to hold to your own schedule of getting to intimacy. But if you’re open to intimacy, make that clearer. Slow and texting isn’t going to appeal to real SDs. Be honest about timeframe comfort early by all means, but not in the profile.