This is my first ever POT SD and meeting, he says that he wants all interaction to only take place on the caravan (upper-class stationary mobile home for the US people here) site (he’s married and wants to be discreet). I’d rather not meet in his caravan for safety reasons. What option do you think is the best for the first meeting?
1. Skype video call (he’s 52 so may not be the best with technology)
2. Caravan site bistro (the bar is closed at this time of the year)
3. The village pub, never been there so not sure if it’s a good place to have high standards
This topic was modified 2 months, 3 weeks ago by ConservationistToBe. Reason: clarification on what a caravan is
Honestly, the meeting in private is right out and a massive red flag. A first meeting should be a quick (15 to 30 minutes at most) session in public where either of you can walk away no questions asked and no obligation. If he cannot manage that discreetly you’re hosed (American slang for just in trouble).
And quite frankly, do you really want a relationship where your only interaction with him is on the caravan?