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    Sibul
    Sibul
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    Hello! I’m new to this and I was contacted by a SD who occasionally travels to my country for work. He’s said how he wants to be descreet about this and for a first meeting wants me to come to his place where he’s staying at or suggested my place if I lived alone. He also mentioned because of work related meetings he won’t be available to meet before 6pm. He explained that he’d like to meet for a few hours where we’d get comfortable and to know each other, he also expects sex at the end and where I’d be gifted cash. He’s been very polite about all of it and often says what “whatever I’m comfortable with”. I’m obviously not comfortable meeting in private and I’m getting plenty of red flags in general, but the fact that he has explained everything he’d like to get out of the meet up is less off putting. So I’d like some advice on if I should just let this one go. Thank you in advance

    #104849

    josieforyou
    Participant

    I think it’s obvious that this is a guy wanting an escort experience, rather than a traditional sugar arrangement.

    The specifics of the scenerio totally depends on what you’re comfortable with and whether you can “perform” even if there’s no chemistry.
    I’d personally never meet someone in private for the first time, and also wouldn’t commit to the idea of sex with someone I’d never met.

    Only you can decide what you are comfortable with.

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    hoosierdaddy
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    Josie was very diplomatic. Let me be less so. NO! Everything about this is wrong. How exactly is it difficult to be discreet publicly in a country you don’t live in? Public first, never a hotel room unless you are a whore.

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