I don’t have news, this is just to decry the quality of both SDs and SBs that are on this site as of lately. Any man with $50 to his name and fresh out of jail considers himself God’s gift on earth. Likewise, any young dumb girl with a pulse and a vagina wants to be “spoiled’. what happened? where did it all go to poop? it’s not even the same site from a year ago, never mind 5. very sad. RIP decent people on SA. if you’re still there, you must be buried deep deep down underneath the men and women who hang out at 7/11 parking lots all day.
I have to agree. Last time I was on a few months ago, I didn’t find anyone reliable or one that didn’t think she had time or what she wanted for an allowance for a short time. I am hoping an old SB comes back this summer so I don’t have to sign back up in a few weeks as I can tell things are so much different then a year or 2 ago. It started to decrease just after 2 years ago last summer. I was on a few times for a month and found a few good ones,but people get busy and then you have to find someone else.
I find that sometimes it takes walking away for awhile and coming back with fresh eyes. O haven’t been active for a few months and just recently returned. Some of the SD seem to think all the SB are desperate or are waiting to fall into their lap. I’m sure most of the SB aren’t a piece of cake either. I can see how it would be easily frustrating for those looking for a true SD/SB relationship.
It all turned to shit when it became ‘mainstream’. Almost every woman thinks she can be a SB [this is super evident in this forum as new SBs ask all kinds of questions that quite frankly show they don’t have the street smarts or common sense to sugar] and every man thinks he can be a SD if he has money to his name… Total nightmare.
I’ve been out of the ‘game’ for 3 years and now I’m back I’m so disappointed LOL.
..men are led to believe they can be a SDs even without money to their name. Causing potential SBs to get scammed, jaded, and the downward spiral continues.
The horror stories that SB tell me far outweigh the encounters I have had. This is what SA wanted and they got.
5-6 years ago when I started, the SB had the upper hand for the most part and could be selective.
Im glad I have networked enough that I can find a new SR without much effort now, plus a couple of previous SB would easliy return if i asked. My advice to everyone is to network yourself through here and other social media outlets😉.
Haven’t been on there in a while,but it has all turned to shit like Josie said. I found a lot of flaky people. Say they want to meet, and when it comes time they don’t Also some women don’t know what allowance or amount they want and they come up with just some large number with out even asking when or how often we will be able to meet. It’s much different then 2.5 years ago.
Old thread, but interesting. Pretty much what I have felt the last 2 times I have been on this site. The whole dynamic of meeting someone has radically changed. I sort of feel it was the release of the phone apps, google play store has it listed with dating apps like plenty of fish. I did check out the phone app, but don’t like it. Also the business plan of SA is to get as many people signed up as possible, thus downgrading the membership.
SD sites are a joke now. You will have a lot more success meeting men in upscale places by free styling ALONE.
I surely have come into this game late, but I’m determined and have a lot of patience. I am very disappointed by the amount of “SD’s”, if most of them can even call themselves that, who can’t commit to a simple meet up. There’s also those who are immediately vulgar and I just cannot stand that.
I have caught on to a regular scam where there’s the promise of a $200/day allowance, they always say that I won’t regret it. I laugh and report them.
Then there’s the SD’s that want to treat SB’s like escorts…. Oh, I could go on but I would only be stating what I think everyone here is already aware of.
I’m happy to stick around and hold out for sugar of quality company.
I have a few months inside the bowl and I can’t agree more when comes to the quality of the people who joined this site. I don’t know how it was a few years ago, but now is kind of tragic 🙂 I believe that this situation was created by the site itself. They should have more protective measures and I strongly believe that no one should join (men and women) without some kind of proof of identity. I know that may sound harsh but safety should always come first. Also, in this way you avoid fakes and create a quality service.
But, I guess SA become a Sugar Babe and all of us are it’s Sugar Daddy feeding it with monthly allowance 🙂
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