I’ve been offered a first meet with a POT, he seems like a nice guy and from what I can tell he is legit and no scammer. He made it clear that he would be expecting sex after dinner and drinks. He has also offered a large amount of money for the meet. I could really use the cash however, this seems a little sordid and I’m not sure I’m totally comfortable with the set up. I’m unsure whether to go and just think of the money or leave it and find something with longevity?
He is not a SD, he is basically treating this as an escort site.
First M&G is over a cup of coffee or a drink and lasts anywhere from 15 to 30 minutes.
The intent of a first meet is to make sure everyone is who they say they are and see if there is any chemistry.
This will probably be a one and done type situation, it’s entirely up to you if you want to go through with it just know what you are getting yourself into.
Don’t do anything you aren’t 100% comfortable with.
That said, I suspect it is a busy married guy who doesn’t have a lot of opportunities for an evening away and he wants to make the most of it. For him a traditional m&g is an opportunity wasted. So he wants to make the most of it, which is why he is willing to pay handsomely. If so I don’t think it needs to be one and done as long as you are reliable (as in don’t cancel at the last minute, that ruins his rare night out and he can’t simply reschedule), and the first time goes well.