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    sugarvixen
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    I had a sugar daddy for a couple months but we broke up. Now I am seeing this new man and we established an arrangement where we would be intimate. He invited me to his hotel room but since its a new sugar daddy I am very stressed and I wonder how do you handle first time sex and control your nervosity.

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    SouthernSD
    SouthernSD
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    Drink. Heavily if needed. Let him take the lead. Hopefully he is an Alpha and not a Beta.

    #106476

    sugarvixen
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    That sounds like the perfect way to get raped and taken advantage of.

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    SouthernSD
    SouthernSD
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    That’s not what I meant. You obviously would not lose your facilities, this is someone you should have got to know and feel comfortable with but just need to relax a bit for the sex part. He should be able to take the lead and make you feel comfortable and make it an enjoyable experience.

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    teajay23
    teajay23
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    I’m fairly new to the sugar bowl, but when coming into a new sexual relationship with my SD I treat it just like every other first experience with a new person. Make sure your SD knows what you are and are not comfortable with. Teasing, sexual conversations help me relax as well. Good luck 😊

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    bbb
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    @sugarvixen

    • This reply was modified 2 weeks ago by  bbb.
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    I’ll lend my unpopular opinion on this.. If you’re nervous to the extent that you’re questioning whether or not you want to do that- its simple, dont do it. If you truly wanted to, you would be excited/looking forward to the experience.

    Yes, a glass of wine makes some people feel more relaxed, and some people see alcohol as a recreational thing to do on a date.. but if you *need* alcohol to do something- that means you would not do it sober aka while of sound mind/body. And, it blurs the lines of consent. You cannot consent while you’re intoxicated.

    So ill have to agree to disagree with you on this one SouthernSD, although I have enjoyed everything else you have written.

    Plus, if you’re not really into it, your SD will know & it wont be fun for either of you. I’d rather have no sex than bad sex. Thats me tho..

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    jacklury6
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    You not feeling good then you should not meeting with him. Otherwise you have try understand him

    #108666

    jacklury6
    Participant

    Hello,
    I have heard, Some time the reason of his behavior is Erectile Dysfunction. So first you have to give advice him to treat Erectile Dysfunction.

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