So I have been sugaring for just under a month now, so still a newbie but doing well enough. I regularly get the feedback that I am very ‘classy’ but recently one of my SD said something that I just don’t understand.
“You are more girlfriend material, not a sugar baby”
What does that even mean? He has previously said he is scared he will develop feelings for me and it will get complicated.
I am missing something here? When I go on dates I present the best side of me, but try to remain authentic to who I am. Advise needed please!
Either he thinks of sugar babies as escorts, or his image is the Kardashianesque bimbo who doesn’t have two brain cells to fire off each other unless it’s about their nails or handbag shopping. Either way it’s him that’s confused about what a sugar baby is/should be. Forget it.
Thanks Hoosierdaddy, would you mind taking a look at my profile? I can see you regularly give good feedback to others on your profile replies, and would be grateful if you’d do the same for me. My username is the same – NyxTJ, and my location is London and Cardiff.
I think he basically means that you’re more like a normal sort of girl, he likes you and definitely considers you as girlfriend material and more then likely would want to develop a relationship with you.
Sounds like you need to ask him what he means. No one knows better than he whats in his head. It is a wild guess but perhaps he feels emotional attraction to you. Perhaps he means you’re a classy girl that a man would be lucky to have as a gf. Either way is a compliment.
Many sugar babies turn into girlfriends. If you feel that starts happening make sure to keep communication honest and direct about expectations.
If you aren’t interested in a romantic relationship at this point in your life be up front with him.
For an example of how complex this can be see my post – He Became By Boyfriend And Stopped Sugaring.