5 Things to ask Your Partner to Pay for

By Julia Jones

Jan 09, 2019

When it comes to sugaring it’s all about finding balance and finding the kind of arrangement that works best for you. What works for one sugar baby and their POT might not work for you. That’s why at LetsTalkSugar we want to give you as many options as we can to help you come up with the perfect arrangement. One option a lot of people don’t consider when they are getting into sugaring and looking for a pay to their POT to help them out that both parties can agree on is a fixed item.

It’s a great starting point

This is a great way for your POT to feel out the relationship while stilling helping out the sugar baby, and the sugar baby can get the help they need without the POT feeling used. It’s also an awesome way to ease into the sugaring world for both a sugar daddy/ sugar mommy or a sugar baby.

How to bring it up

This is a lot more simple than people realize it is. Just ask your POT for a couple minutes to talk about something important. Explain to them that you’d like to start finding an arrangement that will work for both of you- since it can often take a little while to find what works best for both people involved; you don’t want to waste time. And, suggest the idea of a fixed item by suggesting that, instead of gifts or an allowance, you could use help with (insert what works best) and ask how your POT feels about the idea.

What could a POT cover

It can be a little challenging since it will depend a lot on the two (or more) people involved what their lifestyle is like. But the idea behind something like this is to ask your POT to cover one or two things each month.


A phone bill, power bill, internet, or even just giving a sugar baby access to netflix are all simple ways that a POT can help make sure a sugar baby is taken care of. This works great for a POT that wants to make sure their hard earned money isn’t being wasted. And, lets be honest, there will be some POTs that will be concerned about that- which is totally okay.


This is great for those sugar babies that want to get out and explore the world. Follow your POT around the world, or just book a vacation getaway for yourself at daddy’s expense. It’s up to the two of you to decide how you’re going to do it. Maybe if you’re lucky your POT can help you arrange a weekend getaway with some friends.


This is an easy one that any POT should be more than willing to consider. They pay for all the dates. No questions asked. This is amazing for the first couple times you two go out so you can get to know each other better and make sure that you are both into the idea of making this a long-term arrangement so that neither of you feel any pressure to move too fast.


This is great for the business-minded sugar baby out there. Or for anyone who knows that they are going to have to pay for class soon, or even for the sugar baby out there who isn’t sure what they want to do with their life. There are many online options, or you can look around your area for classes that your POT could pay for.


It could be living together or asking your POT to take care of the rent in your own place- but either way not having to worry about getting evicted will take a huge weight off a sugar babies chest.