Similar to the variety in Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies, there is also an endless variety in types of Sugar relationships. Short term and NSA relationships have their benefits, while others prefer the traveling Daddy who’s sporadic sprinkle of Sugar remains otherwise conveniently absent from their daily life. I myself, am a more reserved and traditional gal.
Holding out for the long term benefits of a more traditional Sugar relationship requires patience and skill. If you play your cards right investing in long term Sugar can have an amazing payoff.
BE PREPARED FOR IT TO START SLOW
As you have probably gathered from posts by other Let’s Talk Sugar contributors, patience is the name of the game in the Sugar Bowl. If you go in with very specific expectations chances are it’s going to take some time to find the exact Sugar Daddy you are looking for. To speed things along remember to clearly state what you are looking for in your profile.
Take your time getting to know a new POT. Allow it to develop more like a traditional relationship, starting first with being friends. While many people want to cut to the chase and talk expectations at the end of the first date, if it isn’t brought up, it is OK to go on a few more dates to feel each other out. Of course, the allowance talk needs to happen at some point, but there is no need to rush it.
You may need to go on many dates with many different people before finding the right one. Never settle for less than what you are looking for.
RED FLAGS TO AVOID
If anybody requests to view your private photos without even a ‘hello’, it shows they are either not serious, or show a lack of respect. If their profile is intriguing enough, it may be worth giving them the benefit of the doubt that they were unsure how to begin a conversation with a lady. In this case you may respond politely with a request for a quick introduction and see how it pans out.
Anybody who requests or pressures you to have sex with them the first time you meet is a definite no-no. Like the saying goes: good things come to those who wait. This applies to both SDs and SBs.
REAP WHAT YOU SOW
In the beginning, your long term SD may not shower you with astronomical amounts of cash, fly you to exotic destinations, or buy you gifts. But as you earn their trust and they grow to care for you, they will become increasingly generous. Being in a long term, exclusive relationship with a Sugar Daddy requires you to invest your time and emotions which can be scary. However, when you find somebody whose company you truly enjoy, who is your benefactor, mentor, friend and lover, it is an experience that no money can buy.