Sugar Dating: Much More than Monetary

By JadeSeashell

Apr 20, 2018

Many Sugar Babies focus on allowance and gifts when they enter the Sugar Bowl.  Theoretically, there is nothing wrong with that. That is as long as you give your Sugar Daddy the respect that he deserves. But realistically, a consummate Sugar Baby is aware of what’s beyond allowance and gifts because she has a long-term vision.


Edward Druce famously said, “You have to remember that no one wants to be your mentor.” Indeed, that is a very honest statement. Nobody has the responsibility to be your mentor unless they are your parent or teacher. In reality, no one is happy with a one-way street. You learn from them; they help you, expecting nothing in return.  When Sugar Dating you are in the perfect position where you two have built a mutually beneficial relationship, so your Sugar Daddy is supposed to help you.  He can help you in various ways, including mentoring you.  Therefore, you will keep growing and become a sophisticated, wise and mature woman.


If your Sugar Daddy doesn’t mind introducing you to his network, you should make full use of the situation because his connections are very valuable.  Oftentimes, who you know is more important than what you know.  If Robert Greene didn’t know Joost Elffers (the book packager in Italy), he probably wouldn’t become the successful author that he is today.

If Ryan Holiday didn’t know Robert Greene, well-known books such as The Obstacle is the Way and Ego is the Enemy probably wouldn’t exist.  Clearly, a person’s connections are paramount because you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.  When you attend dinner parties and functions with your Sugar Daddy, you should make him look very good so that everybody around him envies him because of you.  That’s the best way to make sure your Sugar Daddy wants to take you out all the time and introduce you to his powerful friends.  You never know who you are going to meet and when the turning point of your life will happen.

Career Advice

Most Sugar Daddies are successful business owners, so of course, they must have some very good career advice.  Please remember that most people don’t have access to your Sugar Daddy’s advice because they aren’t that close to him.  So your advantage is you are very close to a great career advisor!  Don’t waste your opportunity.  You must ask for his career advice so that you can benefit from this experience forever.  Even if your arrangement might end, what your Sugar Daddy has taught you will stay with you for the rest of your life.  Maybe you want to start your own business?  Perhaps you want to learn to invest?  Get your Sugar Daddy to help you with his knowledge and skills!


If your Sugar Daddy is paying for sizable gifts he is a very generous man.  But have you considered that your Sugar Daddy should also invest in your business/career?  Your textbooks and tuition fees are all very important to you. What’s more important is your long-term success, i.e. your business and career.  If your Sugar Daddy is happy to invest in your business then it will grow.  By the age of 22, you could be a successful CEO because of his investments.

Now it’s time to pay less attention to short-term benefits such as allowance & gifts and pay more attention to long-term benefits such as mentorship, network, career advice and investment so that you will become a successful woman with or without your sugar daddy in the future.