Married Vs Single Sugar Daddies

By Colette

Sep 06, 2018

The wonderful thing about Seeking Arrangement is that it attracts all kinds of people to the sugar bowl—including married and single Sugar Daddies and Mommies.  As a Sugar Baby who’s had arrangements with both married and single Sugar Daddies, I want to break down some general pros and cons of having an arrangement with each type—with the caveat that every Sugar Daddy or Mommy has their own particular desires and circumstances.  No two are alike!


Having discretion is a major theme surrounding arrangements with married Sugar Daddies.  Being discreet can mean anything from not holding hands or kissing in public (or at least not until the coast is clear), to having one partner walk a few paces ahead of the other so that you don’t look like you’re together, to eating at out-of-the-way places, to only communicating at certain times of day, and so on.  This can be a good thing if you aren’t looking for anything serious, but it can also be a bad thing if you start to get emotionally attached to your SD.

That’s the catch—the physical part of the arrangement can be really, really intense and passionate, which is both fun and dangerous.  Because you bring something to the table that his wife doesn’t—whether it’s your figure, how you show affection, and everything in-between—the passion can just keep building.  If you don’t keep your emotions in check, either your SD will eventually notice and may decide to wind things down, or maybe his wife will start digging because she senses something’s up.

Which brings me to one of the biggest risks of having an arrangement with a married Sugar Daddy: the possibility that his wife finds out.  If your sugar frequently with married Daddies, this is something that will probably happen to you at some point.  If you find yourself in a situation where your Sugar Daddy’s wife finds out and starts contacting you, I recommend that you simply do not engage in any kind of conversation or confrontation because it’s bound to make things worse.

But altogether, my experience sugaring with married Daddies has been a positive one and has provided me with very fond memories of romantic getaways and more.


To me, the most amazing thing about sugaring with single Sugar Daddies is that they have the potential to really open up their whole life to you.  In my last arrangement, my Sugar Daddy introduced me to some of his closest friends, often invited me over to his place—including weekends (usually off-limits for married SDs), and whisked me away on long vacations.  Before I met him, I’d only had arrangements with married SDs, so being able to meet his friends and spend so much time with him was really special.  He could also be as generous as he wanted with spoiling since he didn’t have a wife at home poring over his bank statements.

However, all good things come to an end.  A single SD can “wake up” at any time with the realization that he’d rather be dating someone that he wants to marry and decide you’re not it.  Or he could meet someone else on a business trip and decide he’d rather date her normally instead of having an arrangement with you.  Because of this, you need to be really careful about not getting too comfortable: always keep yourself up, both physically and mentally, and make sure you do what you can to keep the relationship spicy.  And make sure you have a vanilla hustle, or some other stream of income, in case things go south.

Arrangements with single Sugar Daddies can feel the most “real”—like a normal boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, with the sweet benefit of the freedom to travel and enjoy the best the world has to offer.  These Daddies can be hard to find, but in the end, they’re absolutely worth the search.

Good luck and happy sugaring!