Meeting his family is always a scary idea, after all, what if they don’t like you and they pressure him to never see you again? Or what if you say something offensive without knowing? What if they say something offensive?
There can be a lot going through your mind when it comes to meeting family, and you’ve probably got one thing on top of what everyone else worries about: You’re his sugar baby. So, what if his family knows? Well, here are a few tips on how to handle it all to make sure the first meeting goes better than anyone could have expected.
Talk to him before hand
If there is anything you’re worried about bringing up or them bringing up, talk to him about it beforehand to make sure you two are on the same page. For example, it might be a good idea to make sure that they do know you’re his sugar baby; just to make sure you don’t say anything that would give it away if they don’t. It’s also a good idea to ask about what topics you should avoid or what topics the family will enjoy.
I’m pretty sure this should go without saying, but be polite when you meet his family. After all, they will want someone who is best for their family member and if you’re rude they aren’t going to think that is you.
Don’t talk about everything he has done for you, but do appreciate what he’s done
Don’t make a focus about talking about everything your sugar daddy has done for you or everything he’s paid for, but if something comes up it’s okay to make it clear that you appreciate everything your daddy (their family member) has done for you and that you know how lucky you are.
Don’t bring up that your his sugar baby unless they do
Again, this goes with the above. You don’t want to flaunt it in front of the family that he’s your sugar daddy because it might be something that they don’t know how to handle. But if it gets brought up, that’s okay. It’s just a matter of being polite by not talking about something that (sadly) a lot of people are still uncomfortable with – after all, you wouldn’t talk politics right after meeting his family, right?
If they bring up that you’re his sugar baby know what to say
That being said, if they do bring it up, it’s important to know what to say. Choose your words carefully if you’re worried they will be used against you. It’s totally acceptable to ask that the subject be changed, but having a good answer for his family about the sugaring question is a good idea.
If you want to give an honest answer, be blunt with them. Tell them why you started sugaring and what your life was like at that time, skip over any POT’s that you met before him and focus on the first time you two met. Talk about how sugaring has improved your life (without bringing up how much of a financial impact it’s had on your life) and focus on how having him in your life has improved it; not for the money but for who he is.
Get to know his family
The truth is, if he wants you to meet his family there is a reason. Either he wants to shut them up or he’s really into you! And the best thing you can do for him is getting to know his family, and it also keeps the questions away from you.