Helping a Sugar Daddy with Erectile Dysfunction

By Victoria Naples

Apr 16, 2018

Men of all ages suffer from erectile dysfunction, also known as “ED.”  It is the inability to create or sustain an erection during sexual intercourse.  It can be caused by a variety of factors, including chronic illness. Issues that especially affect the heart, poor blood flow, medications, depression and fatigue can all be contributing factors.  Eighteen percent of men in the United States suffer from this condition. This is particularly so for those over the age of 40.  However, their partners also suffer.  Partners of men with ED feel the stress of the disorder. As women they feel unable to connect. We may feel partly responsible. Or may feel less desirable once the sexual element of a relationship is affected.  The good news is that there are many things a Sugar Baby can do to help mitigate the problem.

Be Adventurous

Trying something new in the bedroom is highly recommended by physicians.  This is because novel ideas can help boost arousal.  So as a Sugar Baby you may wish to amp things up by having more foreplay. Try watching explicit videos, or dressing in sexy lingerie.  You may even be able to parlay this situation into a setting. By getting a new wardrobe to help make you look as alluring as possible. The real key here is to do something “different.” Even if it is a little change.  So, making love with the lights on instead of off may do the trick. Or you can simply alter the positions you engage in between the sheets.

Create A No-Pressure Environment

Men often feel pressured to perform. Another consideration is to take things slow.  Instead of hitting the sack for some X-rated fun suggest snuggling.  You can also let him be a voyeur while you pleasure yourself.  Another idea is to focus on dates that take place out of the house.  For example, trying going wine tasting, fishing or dancing. The location eliminates the call of the bedroom.  Having a perky attitude also helps.  Try to keep a smile on your face. Be quick with a supportive word.

Talk About It

Physicians recommend that partners of men diagnosed with ED be open to having a conversation about the nature of disorder.  The Sugar Daddy and the Sugar Baby should be able to have some back and forth. Be sure to be empathetic.  Understand that your Sugar Daddy may feel embarrassed, anxious or angry.  It’s all right to voice your feelings on the matter.  If you are interested in pursuing a sexual relationship make suggestions on consulting with a doctor. Consider therapy or medication management.  If you are fine with a no-sex or low-sex relationship communicate that notion.  Let your Sugar Daddy know that you are interested in him for his smarts, his sense of humor and his generosity.

Be Patient

Nothing happens overnight. Both Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies need to have patience.  Even the best medications don’t work magic. Even the most beautiful of Sugar Babies won’t be able to arouse their man with bedroom eyes alone.  Be prepared to encounter some ups and downs along the way. That is part of the process.  And remember that there’s light at the end of the tunnel.  By sticking by your Sugar Daddy through a difficult period, you will communicate to him that you are someone that can be counted on. This will strengthen your bond.