Understanding Your Partner’s Sexual Needs

By Katanna

Mar 20, 2019

Are you someone that relies on astrology to determine the sexual compatibility between you and your partner? Comparing ourselves and relationships to our zodiac sign is something we’ve all done. Of course, everybody wants to be the “MVP of the bedroom” when it comes to getting your partner to climax. However, that is not always the case. In fact, one of the most common struggles amongst couples is not understanding each other’s sexual tendencies.

The team here at Lets Talk Sugar wanted to provide our readers and clients with an inspiring article on ways to add a little sugar to your sex life. Keep reading to learn more about understanding the needs of your partner and ways you can change things up in the bedroom according to your partner’s zodiac sign.

Know your body

One major difference between men and women is our physical anatomy which has been known to cause confusion for both sexes. Women are complex creatures and it’s no secret that the female body is a mystery. Unfortunately, there are many women who struggle with understanding their own body, so you can only imagine how hard it is for males to make sense of it. If you don’t know your own body how can you expect your partner to? This can be very intimidating and frustrating for a lot of men during an intimate moment. Although they may try hard, these uncertainties can cause men to feel less confident in the bedroom hindering their performance. Before embarking on a new relationship or continuing your sex life with a current one. Take a step back and get to know your own body.

Ladies, if you’re noticing that you don’t have the sex drive like you used to, consult with your doctor. They may diagnose you with having Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder (HSDD) which is caused by distress and other physical conditions. HSDD can be easily treated with a simple medication called Addyi. Once you’ve determined the cause of your low sex drive, play around and get to know your body. Using sex toys is a great way to introduce foreplay into your sex life while also helping you learn what it takes to make you climax.

Fellas don’t worry we haven’t forgotten about you. Just because your body is easier to decipher doesn’t mean you don’t have hang ups when it comes to sex. The stress of having to perform in the bedroom could lead to the inability to achieve an erection. Knowing your body and determining if this is an ongoing issue is not only best for your sexual health and relationship but for your overall health as it’s also an indication you could be at risk for heart disease. If this is something you’re experiencing, consult with your doctor about your options for treating ED.

Communication

A major part of having a healthy sex life is communication. Often times people think their partner will just know what it takes to satisfy them, but in reality, none of us are mind readers. Having this conversation can feel awkward but it could lead to a healthier sex life and an even stronger relationship. Being able to discuss your likes and dislikes can be the ultimate game-changer in the bedroom and can lead to you or your partner feeling more confident in all areas of your relationship. Here are a few examples to help you feel more confident between the sheets.

The following infographic discusses what each signs erogenous zones are and what someone with this sign likes in the bedroom. For example, if you’re an Aries your erogenous zones are your head, face, and mind. Let your partner know that you enjoy having your hair pulled during sex. Not only will it satisfy you, but your partner will enjoy taking control and doing something that turns you on. Now, we aren’t saying if you’re dating a Scorpio and you’re more on the timid side that you should be scared and run away, this was meant as a fun way to express your sexual tendencies with your partner.