Defining the Sugar Baby

By JadeSeashell

Dec 07, 2017
Jackie Kennedy famously said, “There are two kinds of women, those who want power in the world and those who want power in bed.”   Basically, those were two typical categories of women in the last century.  But today the world is different: even women who want power in bed fall into different categories.  More specifically, women in relationships are not the same, so let’s have a look at the differences between sugar babies, spoilt girlfriend, gold-diggers and sex workers.

Sugar Babies

Usually, a sugar baby is a someone who is in an arrangement with a sugar daddy.  An arrangement is best characterised by mutual benefits, i.e. both the sugar baby and the sugar daddy get exactly what they want from the arrangement.  There is no manipulation because of the honesty from the beginning.  Therefore, an arrangement is also known as a mutually beneficial relationship.  Sugar babies do not get paid for services.  Instead, they are given gifts by people they have arrangements with.  Of course, some prefer receiving allowance regularly.  In this day and age, some sugar babies are men who date sugar mommas.  Most of the time, arrangements are confidential, so sugar babies and sugar daddies/mommas do not tell others about it.

Spoiled Girlfriends

A spoiled girlfriend is a woman who is in a relationship with a man that would like to spoil her, and their relationship is usually fairly traditional.  For instance, when a woman and a rich man become a couple, she is a spoiled girlfriend if her boyfriend always showers her with expensive gifts and takes her away for fancy vacations.  This is quite common in wealthy dating.  Many spoiled girlfriends become wives, as evidenced by a large number of examples in the upper class.

Sugar Babies are Not Gold Diggers

Sugar babies are looking for genuine and meaningful arrangements with powerful men, and they are honest when it comes to terms and conditions of arrangements.  In contrast, a gold-digger is usually a dishonest woman who dates a millionaire man in order to get his money.  Gold-diggers only want to get money quickly and then leave.  They use manipulative strategies to make money by doing this.
Once they’ve got what they want, they usually leave their men very fast because they are not looking for healthy long-term relationships.  Obviously, most rich men are not stupid, so it’s very difficult for gold diggers to be with millionaire men for a long time.  That’s why gold diggers wouldn’t plan to stay in such relationships for long.  Indeed, these relationships are not sustainable.

Sugar Babies are Not Sex Workers

According to the above-mentioned description, sugar babies don’t sell services.  By contrast, a sex worker is oftentimes a woman who makes money by offering sex service.  This is not legal everywhere in the world, yet it is considered “the world’s oldest profession”.  According to Wikipedia, sex workers also include those who are involved in relevant service industries, e.g. pornography models and actors, performers in live sex shows (striptease, Go-Go dancing, lap dancing, Neo-burlesque and peep shows), and so on.
But arrangements are legal in every country because an arrangement is about two adults who are honest about their expectations.  No one should judge what adults agree to do behind closed doors. As long as they are both willing to do it and it’s legal, it is their business.  Therefore, sugar babies are not sex workers.  In fact, sugar babies are switched-on women who know their worth and what they deserve.