First Date Safety

By Delilah James

Nov 17, 2016

Preparing for the first date is not just about picking out an outfit, or making sure your hair and nails are done. There are other ways that you will need to prepare.

For example, make sure you tell at least one person where you are going! Give an address, as well as the name of the person you’re meeting. Perhaps even send a screenshot of his profile to a close friend or family member who you don’t mind sharing information about your Sugar life with.

For obvious reasons, a first date should occur at a public place, and not at an apartment or hotel room. C’mon, you’re classier than that.Whether you’re a newbie, looking to jump into the bowl for the first time, or a seasoned SB, here are some first date safety tips we can all benefit from.

Never Do Anything Before Receiving Your End of The Deal

It’s hard to trust someone you just met online, and there’s nothing wrong with that. A real Sugar Daddy will understand if you’re not comfortable before you’ve met in person or before he’s sent you money or gifts.

For example, if a Sugar Daddy asks for photos in exchange for a gift card sent to you, ask for at least half in advance. It’s only fair, and if he’s got as much Sugar as he says, it shouldn’t be a problem for him.

Be Prepared To Defend Yourself

Again, this is the worst case scenario, and likely something you’ll never have to worry about. But, you can never be too prepared. Carry pepper spray, a pocket knife, or something similar in your purse at all times, and make sure you know how to use it.

Take Unique Photos For Your Profile

Many sugar babies want to keep their Sugar Baby life private from their personal life, which is understandable. If that’s the case, use photos on your Seeking Arrangement site that aren’t anywhere else on the internet.

Google now offers a reverse image search, which means that someone could pull your Seeking Arrangement profile picture and link it back to your Instagram, Facebook, etc. if the same photo is used in both places. If you don’t care, then don’t worry about it. Otherwise, maybe have a special SA photoshoot?

Report His Ass

While scammers are few and far between on Seeking Arrangement, this is because of girls like you who report the fake Sugar Daddies. If you come across anything sketchy, let SA know so that they can take care of it.