There are a lot of woman in the 21st century who want to live a pampered, posh lifestyle at the expense of a beau. It certainly isn’t the 1950’s anymore, when a woman’s place was predominantly and happily in the home. Back when women would make and bake to their heart’s’ content to provide a warm and inviting atmosphere for their hard working breadwinning husband and idyllic family. Oh, the 50’s, a seemingly romanticized era.
Flash forward to today where a significant number of women are university educated, empowered, and driven to succeed. We women are encouraged to make something of ourselves socially and financially. If you’re wanting to have a supportive and generous benefactor to give you an extra boost, there is no shame in doing so, just know before going in what it is you’re actually after. Here are some ways to ensure you’re getting the most out of Sugar.
WHAT’S THE MOTIVATION?
There are many reasons people enter the bowl and it’s up to you to decide your motive. If you’re looking for something in particular, do your best to articulate your wants and needs in a compelling and captivating manner. Your profile picture will capture his attention, but it’s what you convey in your profile that can be the difference from receiving messages in your inbox or none at all. Make it a goal to portray the best version of yourself in your profile. Be as honest and genuine as possible, as this will increase your chances of attracting your ideal type.
If you’re in it for fast cash and you’re doing the mad dash to get as many suitors as possible, take a moment and truly evaluate your situation. The bowl is not a place for desperation. Sugar is a means to supplement your currently existing income. Remember, you are not guaranteed to be gifted in the bowl. So, if your sole desire is the benjamins, you may not be quite ready for the Sugar life.
ONCE YOU’RE IN THE BOWL
Know what you want to get out of the bowl. If you’re going in like a deer in the headlights, you may take a hit, and it’s probably going to hurt. Many Sugar Babies do not initially go in with a clear set of goals or boundaries. The worst thing to possibly say on a date with a POT is, “I have no idea what I’m looking for.” If you don’t know where you’re going, it’s going to be hard to get to where you need to be.
You can get to where you want to go by having a plan. Fortunately, you can build up your confidence and create the ideal situation that works best for you. A bit of confidence, charisma, and focus goes quite a ways. We all have our reasons for wanting to enter the Sugar Bowl–it’s up to you to determine yours.
BABES IN THE BOWL
Some are studious academics getting through University, others are career oriented go – getters, and some are looking to become a wife for life. While Seeking Arrangement is predominantly for those seeking something mutually beneficial and is often not meant to evolve into an indefinite relationship, some are actually looking for a life long lover. Yes, indeed, the Mr. Serious types are on the site–granted they are few and far between–but they do exist!
Newbies looking for a dapper Daddy: keep in mind it may take some time to seal the deal of your dream man. A substantial percentage of the Daddies have no desire, whatsoever, to settle down. If you’re genuinely looking for Mr. Serious, steer clear of Mr. NSA, as it’s highly unlikely his desires will change from wanting a fling to getting a ring.
KNOW YOUR WORTH
Know the quality of value you bring to an arrangement. You are an amazing and deserving woman who can attract the best of the best. You simply do not consider settling for less. You deserve to have what you desire, and you deserve to be treated with respect. The bowl can be a great place for you if you know what it is you are after.
Know the difference between being a deserving baby and an entitled baby, as the two have striking differences. A deserving baby is confident, has a high self-esteem, and knows the value she brings to the table. An entitled baby wants what she wants and expects to get it simply for existing. Most Daddies pass up entitled mindset babies simply because the demeanor is a turn off.