When it comes to sharing, we put a lot of pressure on ourselves to be what our POT’s want us to be. After all, they are the ones with the money right? And that’s why you’re around and looking for a sugar daddy. But often times, we put too much pressure on being the way we think they want us to look or act the way we think they want us to act. Today, can we talk about the things that a sugar daddy actually wants from you? And, spoiler, it has nothing to do with your cup size. In case you were wondering
No, I’m not saying you need to go sign up for a yoga class. What I mean is that your sugar daddy wants you to understand he’s busy and that you might have to work around his schedule- I mean, one of the reasons he’s on sugar daddy sites is because of how hard he works. While you should expect your POT to respect your plans, I think it is important to understand he might need you to put in 60% or even 70% of the effort sometimes.
Is this something I should even put on the list? It’s not something I should have to put on the list, that is for sure but sometimes sugar babies aren’t considerate enough to understand that their POT needs to know you’re a kind human being.
Honesty about Where you Stand
That being said, are you there just for the money? Be honest about it and don’t lead your sugar daddy on just to try and get more money from someone. Don’t disrespect him by not being honest about your intentions- and make sure you two can create a good arrangement that works for both of you.
Show an interest! Need I say more? Be interesting as well and it will keep the conversation flowing. The more the conversation flows, the better it will be for you.
Your Own Interests
Your sugar daddy wants you to have interests of your own! It’s so important that you keep in mind that you’re your own person, and you should let that show. Just because your sugar daddy might want a lot from you, doesn’t mean he won’t want to see you as a strong, confident, capable woman.
Be respectful towards your POT and other people, including the people in your life and the people you meet in day to day life.
To be More than just Money
Your POT wants to be more to you than just his money. You don’t want to feel used, right? Well, your POT doesn’t either. Remember he’s a person with his own interests, his own feelings, and his own passions (as well as his own baggage), and it’s important to make sure your POT knows that you see him for more than just the money; you see him for the man he is.
An Actual Relationship, Probably
Maybe not your typical sort of relationship, but most POTs aren’t looking for a smash’n’pass. They want something that can be long term, although maybe not exactly normal. They want something they can put faith in.
To Feel Special
Most of all, your POT probably wants to feel special. We all do, don’t we?
Make sure you’re taking the time to make him feel special, and make sure you’re feeling special as well. Ask them about their day, about their hobbies, about their interests- even make a date of him showing you some of the things he loves.