If you’re a Sugar Baby chances are, at some point you’ve either thought about the idea of having more than one sugar daddy, or you have had more than one sugar daddy. And anyone who has done it tells me that it is hard AF and the truth is I’ve heard some pretty bad horror stories about girls using the wrong daddies name or referencing something to one daddy that happened with another. Needless to say, if that happens things can go bad fast. So, what can you do to avoid this ever happening to you?
First, let’s talk about the idea of having more than one sugar daddy.
There is no way around the fact that having two or more Sugar Daddies is going to be easy. It’s going to be ten times harder than having just one sugar daddy. And it’s important to make sure that if you are going to have more than one sugar daddy you have to make sure that you can handle it. If you can’t handle it, the truth is, it’s not you who is going to get hurt- it’s your POT’s. When it comes to having more than one Sugar Daddy, screwing up, could result in a broken heart- even more so than just screwing up with one Daddy.
Have you ever been cheated on? Have you ever had someone pick someone else over you?
Realize that this is what often happens when you’re double sugaring and it goes wrong.
Keep your facts right. And if that means you have to use a notebook, that’s okay. Especially when you’re getting to know someone. It’s important to get to know someone and make sure that you don’t mix your Sugar Daddies up.
Take notes about what you need to remember, and before you get to see your POT review it.
It’s about being honest and communicating well! This can be really scary at first because honestly, we don’t want to say something wrong and we’re scared that if we say the wrong thing it will be the end of our relationship and that it will be our fault- and I think thing the last thing any of us wants is to be the reason something ends.
Be open about your schedule and make time!
It’s important to make sure that while you’re communicating you are also talking about when you are and aren’t free. Keep a schedule and be open about it.
When you have more than one daddy it’s going to be hard to make sure you have the time for both of them, and it’s going to be hard to make sure that you make them both feel fully fulfilled.
Don’t hide one daddy from the other, it’s just going to get you into trouble when it comes down to it. Eventually, one daddy will find out about the other; it’s just that simple so it’s best, to be honest up front and let your daddies know what is going on- but it also means that you have to be accepting about the fact that your Daddy might want more than one sugar baby.
When daddy wants more than one baby girl, it’s important to understand that things are going to get complicated- just like it will be when you want more than one daddy; which is why I’m going to cover this in a few more posts that are going to detail a lot more about how to make this work and what it actually feels like as well as how to deal with any jealousy that might come up.
So keep an eye out for those!